ch-ch-check it out.

just found out this amazing site ! it's hillarious, i found my self caught up reading those silly posts.  ch-ch-check it out! . and i downloaded some more music from The White Tie Affair and 16 Frames. ;D

a friend

it was way back when we used to be so close. we're inseparable, well at least that how i felt. but then i made a mistake that i thought at that time will never be this huge and cause a heartache. yeah we're close, and i guess it is my fault to give him such hope and crush it. i didn't know that my existence there would matter so much to him at that time. i really didn't know that it's that important. i thought we're just such good friends. i did'nt know him like i do know now. we barely know each other last name and yet he expect me to know him well. i'm not blaming him for this but pleaseeee, will you forget the thing i did. can we start over and be friends such good friends? its the only thing i ask for you. to forget what i did and start over. you still affect me these days. you still do.. you're a good friend. i wish we still can be friends like we used to. i miss you. and i still remember those late night calls. i miss you , friend. ;''(

Tuesdays with Morrie

i found many quotes from the book Tuesdays with Morrie, and i found some are very fascinating. so yeah. here it is.

Life Lessons From Tuesdays With Morrie (Doubleday, 1997)
1. “Accept what you are able to do and what you are not able to do.” (p. 18)
2. “Accept the past as past, without denying it or discarding it.” (p. 18)
3. “Learn to forgive yourself and to forgive others.” (p. 18)
4. “Don’t assume that it is too late to get involved.” (p. 18)
5. Find someone to share your heart, give to your community, be at peace with yourself, try to be as human as you can be. (p. 34)
6. “Love always wins.” (p. 40)
7. “The culture we have does not make people feel good about themselves. And you have to be strong enough to say if the culture doesn’t work, don’t buy it.” (p. 42)
8. “So many people walk around with a meaningless life. They seem half-asleep, even when they’re busy doing things they think are important. This is because they’re chasing the wrong things. The way you get meaning into your life is to devote yourself to loving others, devote yourself to your community around you, and devote yourself to creating something that gives you purpose and meaning.” (p. 43)
9. “ . . . if you really want it, then you’ll make your dream happen.” (p. 47)
10. “The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in.” (p. 52)
11. “Love is the only rational act.” (p. 52)
12. “I don’t allow myself any more self-pity than that. A little each morning, a few tears, and that’s all . . . . It’s horrible to watch my body slowly wilt away to nothing. But it’s also wonderful because of all the time I get to say goodbye.” (p. 57)
13. “Sometimes you can’t believe what you see; you have to believe what you feel.” (p. 61)
14. “What if today were my last day on earth?” (p. 64)
15. “Once you learn how to die, you learn how to live.” (p. 82)
16. If you accept you are going to die at any time, then you might not be as ambitious as you are. (p. 83)
17. There is no foundation, no secure ground, upon which people may stand today if it isn’t the family. (p. 91)
18. “Don’t cling to things, because everything is impermanent.” (p. 103)
19. “ . . . If you’ve found meaning in your life you don’t want to go back. You want to go forward. You want to see more, do more. You can’t wait until sixty-five.” (p. 118)
20. “Money is not a substitute for tenderness, and power is not a substitute for tenderness.” (p. 125)
21. “ . . . love is how you stay alive, even after you are gone.” (p. 133)
22. “Love each other or perish.” (p. 149)
23. “ . . . the big things—how we think, what we value—those you must choose yourself. You can’t let anyone--or any society—determine those for you.” (p. 155)
24. “Don’t let go too soon, but don’t hang on too long.” (p. 162)
25. “Be compassionate. And take responsibility for each other. If we only learned those lessons, this world would be so much better a place.” (p. 163)
26. “Forgive yourself before you die. Then forgive others.” (p. 164)
27. “As long as we can love each other, and remember the feeling of love we had, we can die without ever really going away. All the love you created is still there. All the memories are still there. You live on—in the hearts of everyone you have touched and nurtured while you were here.” (p. 174)
28. “Death ends a life, not a relationship.” (p. 174)
29. The important questions have to do with love, responsibility, spirituality, awareness. (p. 175)
30. “You’re not a wave, you are part of the ocean.” (p. 180)
31. “ . . . there is no such thing as ‘too late’ in life.” (p. 190)

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"the fights you fight today are the fights you fight until you die."
-Rocket Science

"you need to have a little faith, not everyone you love is going to leave you."
-The Sisterhood Of The Traveling Pants 2

"I know what it is to not feel like you're in the room until he looks at 
you or touches your hand or even makes a joke at your expense, just
to let everyone know... you're with him. You're his."
-P.S. I Love You

"If you think I've given up on you, you're crazy and if you think I don't love you, then you're just wrong."
-Blues Traveller

"And after all that has been said and done
there's still a part of me that just can't let you go."
-Chicago

Hello again,
it's you and me-kinda always like it used to be.
Sippin' wine, killing time,
trying to solve life's mysteries.
- Bon Jovi